THE ART OF SELF GRATITUDE
We are often told so many times to express gratitude towards people for their kind gestures meted to us. This is a good thing to do always.And it is commonly said that one who is appreciated would always want to do more which is very true and so we ought to show gratitude always.On the hand, being appreciative and thankful is one major way to live a healthy and happy life which in turn leads to longevity.But what is less talked about is self gratitude. You hardly hear people…
Read more
YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU DO
Often times, when asked who are you? we become so quick to answer the question with our accomplishments, qualifications, position, title, age and every other achievement.We answer the question like I am Rhoda Amapakabo, from Okrika, Rivers state. A graduate of sociology, upcoming entrepreneur๐ and a customer service representative.And yes, I have actually answered the question like this for real but there is a danger in thinking that what we do and who we are are actually …
Read more
YOU WERE NOT CREATED TO FIT IN BUT TO STAND OUT
Everyone of us have unique roles to play in this life here on earth and that's what makes us stand out. But when you try to play the role of another person or do what the majority does, then you are fitting in.God created each and everyone of us uniquely with different roles to play. He gave us all unique assignments and purposes to live and accomplish here on earth.
But unfortunately, we have so many people especially youths who try to fit in the crowd instead of standin…
YOU ARE NOT EVERYBODY
We live in a worth-seeking world where everyone wants to be liked, loved and accepted by all and then feel like you are for everybody or that everyone likes you.We try so hard to please people in an effort just to feel better about ourselves seeking validation and reaffirmation of self-esteem.And then, with the rise of social media showcasing both fake and flashy lifestyles, it becomes so easy to want to be like them. Lots of youths are seen battling for validation from the …
Read more
NEVER LET THE DEFINITION OF SOMEONE ELSE'S SUCCESS DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE - PART 1
Everyone one wants to be successful and feel successful. For some people, being successful is having wealth, fame, power, education, being married and lots of other things.
We most times desire these things because we see them happening in the lives of others especially with social media clouts where it would seem like your life is heading nowhere.
With social media, there are people who have a vague or narrow minded definition of what success is.
Spending much time on social …
THERE IS BEAUTY IN YOUR SCARS
We all have scars either within us or on our outer bodies, emotionally or physically that can plague us for years or for life if we permit it.
For some, it's more of emotional scars from mistakes made, wrong decisions made or regrets made in the past. There are those who even feel ugly because they have scars on them.
These scars sometimes cause shame, disappointments or regrets to most of us whenever we see them but for every scar emotionally or physically. there is a st…
THE STORY OF THE GARBAGE TRUCK DRIVER
I came across the story of a man named David J. Pollay, author of "The Law of The Law of Garbage Truck." who alongside his cab driver were almost hit by a garbage truck driver. Now, even if the garbage truck driver was wrong, he still yelled at the taxi driver. The taxi driver on the other hand, instead of being angry and yelling back at the truck driver, maintained is composure, smiled and waved at the truck driver. David asked the driver " Why did you just …
Read more
THE PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE'S VALIDATION
It feels good when we all get compliments from people. It feels good when what we do is appreciated and commended by people. When you get a pat on the shoulder for a job well done, it sure feels good. When you live your big dream or showcase your potentials and people are appreciative of what you do and praise you for it, it sure feels good. When you post pictures and other posts on social media platforms like facebook, twitter or instagram, it feels good when people like a…
Read more
I am Rhoda Amapakabo, a graduate of Sociology from the University of Jos, Nigeria.I am passionate in motivating and inspiring people live through life's challenges while thriving and flourishing in every area of life. Everyone of us can live through life's challenges if only we see the big and beautiful picture after the storm. This blog is meant to encourage people that they can live their dreams and achieve their goals irrespective of the difficulties or challenges faced. We can all thrive and flourish in life instead of just surviving. Don't just struggle. Thrive and flourish
Social Plugin