WHO SAYS YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH?
There are certain days in life when we feel not good enough and in most cases these feelings emanate from people we come in contact with or relate with. People have a way of making you feel not good enough either directly or indirectly but it behooves you to accept or decline their opinions of you. Other times, we inflict this pain of not feeling good enough on ourselves due to the feelings of dejection, rejections, disappointments and experiences of our past life style.I hav…
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YOU WILL AUTOMATICALLY WIN ONE DAY
The race of life ought to be done jejely with each person running his or her race relaxed and focused on on the lane set before them by God.But often times, some of us expend so much energy all in a bit to be at par with others with whom we perceive as competitors.People violate their game plan just to be at equal pace with others forgetting if only they can focus on the ground immediately in front of them and not on the pack of people who seem to be ahead, the would automat…
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YOUR JOB IS NOT TO IMPRESS PEOPLE BUT TO RUN YOUR OWN RACE
No matter how your life started or bad you perceive it to be, you are not a mistake. God intended for you for a purpose here on earth. God would not have allowed you to be born if He had no plan for you. That's why He said in Jeremiah 1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born, I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."Unfortunately, so many people do not know the purpose of their existence hence the need and desire…
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EVERYBODY IS NOT GOING WHERE YOU ARE GOING
While you try to do what others are doing, try to be like them and wanna go where they go, have you ever paused to think if you have same destination as them? Secondly, while you feel bad, sad, all moody and probably depressed about people who left your life, have you ever thought if they are going same way as you?If anyone leaves your life, then they are not meant to be there in the first place so don't get all worked up. Move on.Just because someone has been by your si…
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YOU FAILED IN 2020 SO WHAT? 2
2020 has been a great year for us all. For some its been a very challenging year and for others its been awesome.For everyone who had it rough, life doesn't end with with 2020 as we look forward to a better 2021. Don't get stuck with the regrets, mistakes or failures of 2020. Move forward.Last week, we looked at part one of this series where some salient points on how to get passed the difficulties of 2020 were stated and explained.You can read that here: You Failed …
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ALL YOU NEED IS STRENGTH FOR TODAY AND NOT THE WORRIES OF TOMORROW 1
We all go through one form of challenge or the other every day of our lives in our careers, jobs, dreams, finances, family lives, relationships and other wise that tend to weigh us down making us worry for tomorrow. These challenges or troubles would make it seem like you can't or won't be able to go on with life any longer.Sometimes, it's our relationships taking a toll on us and we wouldn't want to let go for fear of being a lone.There are times, it is our …
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HAVE A MADE UP MIND
Ever been in a situation where you had made up your mind to do a certain thing or act on a decision but all of a sudden, you got discouraged?You had all hopes, you were optimistic and excited over it the previous day, hour or second but all of a sudden, the whole excitement died off, the optimism weakened and all hopes got lost because you got discouraged.
You had seen a way out, the way forward or brighter future but for one reason or the other you no longer saw anything p…
NEVER LET THE DEFINITION OF SOMEONE ELSE'S SUCCESS DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE - PART 1
Everyone one wants to be successful and feel successful. For some people, being successful is having wealth, fame, power, education, being married and lots of other things.
We most times desire these things because we see them happening in the lives of others especially with social media clouts where it would seem like your life is heading nowhere.
With social media, there are people who have a vague or narrow minded definition of what success is.
Spending much time on social …
PRAISE IN PAINS
It is so easy to praise God when things are going well and great. The truth is, we have all had days when it seemed difficult to praise God. I have been in such situations and I'm sure you have been too.
At a time like this when the world is facing a common challenge which is COVID 19, there are people who find it difficult to praise God in such moments especially those who have been affected in one way or the other.
While some have lost loved ones during this period, some…
COVID 19 : THIS TOO SHALL PASS (SPREAD HOPE AND NOT FEAR)
The whole world today is faced with a pandemic (Covid-19) that threatens our peace, economy, freedom and lives in general. It is not just ravaging the world's economy but has taken so many lives.
The Corona Virus Disease (COVID-19) is said to have started towards the end of 2019 in the Hunan sea food market in the city of Wuhan, China where live animals such as bats, frogs, snakes, birds, marmots and rabbits were/are sold infecting more than 50 people at a stretch.
How th…
THERE IS BEAUTY IN YOUR SCARS
We all have scars either within us or on our outer bodies, emotionally or physically that can plague us for years or for life if we permit it.
For some, it's more of emotional scars from mistakes made, wrong decisions made or regrets made in the past. There are those who even feel ugly because they have scars on them.
These scars sometimes cause shame, disappointments or regrets to most of us whenever we see them but for every scar emotionally or physically. there is a st…
I am Rhoda Amapakabo, a graduate of Sociology from the University of Jos, Nigeria.I am passionate in motivating and inspiring people live through life's challenges while thriving and flourishing in every area of life. Everyone of us can live through life's challenges if only we see the big and beautiful picture after the storm. This blog is meant to encourage people that they can live their dreams and achieve their goals irrespective of the difficulties or challenges faced. We can all thrive and flourish in life instead of just surviving. Don't just struggle. Thrive and flourish
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